I’ve noticed most people frame literally every single sex position/sex act through the lens of “Does this make me cum.” It feels so limiting, in my opinion, to have such a binary view of sex.

Face sitting (to me) is more about power and passion than it is about reaching orgasm. Sure, some women may very well cum from it using the right technique, but as a man who loves having his face sat on, it’s more about the woman grinding her pussy/ass back and forth across my face aggressively. That’s the part that gets me going.

It’s not something that’s gonna bring either of us to orgasm, but it’s a novelty. It’s something fun to do. As long as it doesn’t make you physically or mentally uncomfortable, just go with it and have fun.