When you hear Dan & David are not going to Comic-Con

I never understood why that line made people so upset. We learn, grow, develop, and are changed by the major moments in our life - especially the bad. Maybe it’s because my first bf was really high on the npd & aspd scales and then a month after I finally left the relationship I was raped, but that shit DOES change you. It can’t help but change how you at least see the true capacity of people’s ability to be awful. I think her answer is one a lot of people who have been abused would give. That it did change them, that they learned some hard lessons about people and their motives.

It would be like saying having to recover from a horrible illness that you don’t know you’ll survive didn’t change you at all. I mean, maybe that’s possible but it seems less likely than learning a few things along the way.

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