When was the moment you realized that your best friend wasn't your best friend?

It was during my freshman year of college I have a hard time making new friends. I had made a couple of friends but I met a girl who was dating a guy on my dorm floor. They were fighting all of the time and ended up breaking up, I ended up helping her through the break up and we ended up becoming very close friends. We would usually stay up late texting or hanging out and spent a lot of time together.

However, during holiday breaks she would slowly get distant and when we saw each other again we would be close friends again. However, when summer break arrived i said we should hang out and she practically said no. Now, here I am the end of my second year of college and I hanged out with her a couple times and it has only ended up hurting me more in the end. Needless to say somebody who i thought would be my friend through thick and thin, told them things I thought I would never tell anybody just abandoned me.

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