When was the moment you said enough, decided you deserved better and LEFT your abusive Narcissistic ex?

I grey rocked during the last 2 years of marriage with my nex. Completely numbed out and he eventually lost interest in raping me. I was so indifferent to him and gave him no attention or admiration. I think he realized it when he bought me roses & planned vacations and I acted like a zombie and didn’t care anymore. Then he took a trip to his home town - I moved out that same night and took all my things and had him served divorce papers. Somehow I got him to believe it was his idea and he “deserved better” than our boring marriage. He fell for it thank the lord and found new supply.

I thank my past self everyday for going grey rock and him getting bored of lack of supply.. because before that he used to say the only way out was me being dead. Grey rock works!! 2 years out now and I’m free!

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