When you put 60+ hours of prep into your bf's birthday, only for your toxic bf to whine about how nO oNe NeeDs hIm. I don't really understand why men do toxic shit like this and spoil things for themselves, when their girlfriends already pour their life and soul into their relationship.

Honestly this insane entitlement without valuing (female) effort is everywhere. I've seen girls pour 1000s of hours into emotionally supporting their sad boyfriends or guy friends only for them to spew the same exact toxic rhetoric about how no one cares, does anything for them, no one, about how they're all alone in the world, while the people around them were emotionally left damaged with lower self-confidence when they start thinking "I wasn't good enough to help him..."

Might just be me but I've never seen any depressed girl act like this. Anywho. Real talk. That asshole sounds like he's way more in love with his depression than his own gf.

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