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I remember my ex telling me "that because I wasn't in hormones yet and I was ugly, I'm just a gay crossdresser and not valid as a woman" I see a lot if sisters doing this yet not lifting each other up and only focusing on sextualizing themselves while shaming those with no access to resources to help them learn how or transition. A lot of us die in conservative areas never being their complete selves because of sociopathic behaviour like that. My ex did her best to try and get me to and even lured me far away to Texas only to abuse me and run me off into san Antonio getto. That was last year and I was lucky Kentucky toughened me up. Yes, cicnormitive toxicity is all too real and is literally deadly and debilitating