When you thought you finally found it - yet they keep searching

First of all you should be doing this type of basic reconnaissance to begin with to save yourself the trouble of getting involved with people who are into Petty lies like this. If she was still active that is okay but not ok if she is lying about having deactivated it.

But your relationship is new and it is okay for her to be exploring her options but it's not okay for her to already be lying about that ..or ever lie about that type of thing it's a horrible thing to do to somebody.

But if you want to pursue her all I can say is be consistent and keep going out of your way to see her. And keep trying to make plans to see her. You'll know she's not interested if/when she starts coming up with excuses not to see you.

Met my SO online for reasons other than dating and it turned into a relationship. We lived over an hour apart and he went out of his way to visit me every weekend. Braving the LA traffic even. Otherwise nothing really would have happened.

But he was persistent and very communicative with me and always tried to make plans to see me ( our primary Moodus contact was via text messages and he has such a cute style of texting I just thought it was so adorable and it still is. He uses a lot of excited! About everything.)

After a while that started to override any other person I happened to be talking to on the side that wasn't panning out anyway. A couple months of him laying down the pipe every weekend at my apartment and before you know it he's my boyfriend :-)

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