When were your boyfriend/girlfriend’s sexual interests so fucking nasty you had to break up with them?

I would agree! I just know everyone is different. My ex and I were very into that and it absolutely just evolved together over time & wasn’t spoken about. Also morning blowjobs have much less of a stigma and are somewhat less intrusive than physically penetrating someone while they’re still asleep, I feel like there are shades of it.

However I have a friend that has been with her partner for 9 years now and he softly moved his hand up to her neck without discussing it and she was UPSET. When she first brought it up you could tell she was concerned and didn’t understand, worried he was hiding some unsettling tendencies. After a full conversation and in depth details it was obvious he was gently feeling it out and she was NOT okay with it in the slightest.

So everyone’s situation is different.

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