Listen I'm gay, and I don't ever see that kind of attitude in our "community"....if someone doesn't get some then they move on to another person but you straight guys act like it's the end of the world if a girl doesn't wanna spread her legs? I don't know, maybe us gays are too horny so we always inevitably find a guy who's willing and "open"....

But in regards to the whole bad boy thing: yeah it's kinda true for me as well even tho I'm not a girl, I like a guy who is a bad boy, whos masculine, can fix my kitchen sink if it's ever broken if you know what I mean, and all my friends who are straight girls want the same. Maybe you guys need to stop being the "nice guys" and act more..masculine and tough? maybe don't show her your Pokemon collection on the first date? I don't know.