When is the worst time to hear someone say "I dont know"?

I think me and my SO are over and I am completely broken. We've had the strongest of relationships, literally cover each others weaknesses flawlessly. Not a single bit of negativity or arguing between us.

We're engaged, got our wedding rings, our future was bright. We had planned and agreed to move to Canada from the UK. Our visa's and permits got passed and we are basically good to go when we are ready.

Long story short she's decided she can't do it and doesn't want to go anymore. That's fine, not a problem for me, if it's not the right decision for both of us then so be it. But she can't accept that. She's got it in her head that she is holding me back and I'll now resent her and never be happy with her which is so unbelievably far from the truth.

We did a lot of talking and agreed to move forward and draw a line in the sand. Planned to go out for a meal Saturday just gone to mark that point and that would be that. She'd been at her parents do I've gone to pick her up, excited for our night and to get back on track. She was drunk, not hammered but noticeably drunk. Now she's not a big drinker, neither of us are, maybe a couple of drinks socially once a month and that's it. This instantly ruined the night for me, it took all seriousness out of it and I couldn't help but show I was pissed off / upset.

Now we are back to where we were before Saturday. I told her this morning why I was annoyed but I didn't want to cancel the night cause it would of made things worse. And she's convinced herself we need to break up. It's just not something I'm prepared to deal with mainly because there was never an issue or reason that has caused it.

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