Often times "sensitive and caring" don't pair with being dominant. Ideally, there should be some aftercare with the bottom after a rough session, but that part is often overlooked. And if it's just a one-time hookup then chances are the other party isn't going to want to stick around after nutting.

During the folk music renaissance of the early to mid 1960s, the Kingston Trio wrote a song that became a hit where they asked the same question as the one posed here.

However, music producers at their label, Bussy Records, didn't think the general public was ready to hear a group of clean-cut lads singing in harmony about the topic of sensitive, caring dom tops.

In response, the boys worked in collaboration with the label to slightly alter the lyrics to better reflect the mood of the era. Where have all the flowers gone turned out to be their biggest hit and was later recorded by Peter, Paul & Mary, Marlene Dietrich, Roy Orbison, Joan Baez, 2 Live Crew, and Helen Reddy.