I met my first boyfriend at a beat. I was with another guy I knew, and we were going somewhere private - and this cute young guy followed us and we let him join in.

After the other guy left, I ended up talking to this young guy. Turns out he was a virgin and that was his first sexual experience: a threesome with two strangers at a beat.

We went out for the next three months until stuff happened.

My second boyfriend basically forced himself on me at a nightclub.

I'd had a scary experience the weekend before with a guy I took home, so I was not looking to pick up this weekend. Then this cute young guy started dancing with me. We danced on and off all night.

When I told him I was leaving, he said "But I wanted to come with you!" I said that wasn't going happen. He insisted. This led to me interrogating him in a corner of the nightclub, to make sure he wasn't a psycho like the guy the week before. He wasn't. I took him home.

That relationship lasted about two and a half years.

My third boyfriend approached me on Manhunt (website - pre-app days) to compliment me on the grammar and punctuation in my profile. And he thought I was hot. We chatted online for a bit. I wasn't sure I wanted to take on an 18 year old virgin who was young enough to be my son, so I kept things a bit distant and just polite.

But I agreed to meet him for lunch a week later and he was so pretty I was literally speechless. I couldn't talk because I was so distracted by how pretty he was! That does not happen to me.

We had said we weren't going to have sex on our first meeting. But then we did. And it was HOT. He was a hot little virgin boy with a big daddy fetish.

That relationship lasted, with complications, for about two and a half years.