There's a few. Pretty big ones. For some guys they have the world cup, super bowl, whatever.

For me it's a week of watching nerds play video games really fast. They are my people and I welcome them with open arms. Went to one such event and had a blast. Met her there while playing on a pinball machine.

She lived about a state away from me so it was nice. Could drive on a weekend and meet up etc... Got to the point where we started talking about her maybe moving to be closer/in with me. She asked if I wanted more kids and I said nope.

And yeah. I don't want a surrogate mom for my boys. I mean, if you want to join in when we're playing legos by all means, the more the merrier.