Some men want to raise a traditional family. For those men marriage is almost unavoidable. If you were to get married, think of the girl you would want to marry. I'm guessing she's young, somewhat intelligent, raised in a good family, low partner count, conservative, ect,. Do you think this girl is going to agree to such an arrangement? Unless your SMV is literally off the charts, the answer is probably not. Deep down all women (especially high value ones) understand concepts like the wall. They're not going to agree to raise your children so you can abandon them in ten years to go slay coeds.

"Sex with you will always be conditional. Sex provides external validation for a relationship that is not needed."

If a women ever said that, and I'm sure many have, people on here would probably laugh. However, I think what you propose is essentially the male equivalent.

"Don't get married" is great advice for someone in their teens/twenties or who is still not prepared (95% of people on this sub), but not for someone whose actually ready to build a family.

For someone whose actually ready to have have a family this sub really doesn't provide much help. If you can actually convince a girl to be your permanent live in girlfriend and to raise your children, she more than likely isn't the kind of girl you should be aiming to marry. I also think importing your bride from some third world shithole is dumb idea.

Anyway I think my point is that, while "don't get married" is good advice for 99% of the men on here, in the long term marriage is something that I think the majority of the men on here will end up doing. I don't want to get married anytime soon, but I also don't want to spend the rest of my life chasing pussy.