White Men and Black Women Dating (white guy here)

Do you really expect any of us to take you seriously with your NSFW Reddit account where you objectify women indiscriminately?

Well, I wasn't on my main account and I wasn't sure how much detail I would be sharing so I didn't want to use my regular account. My quote in full context is below, please don't dishonestly misquote me

I hope one day we can date and be with who we want, without judgment, regardless of race.

It's pretty sad that you presume my posting here is sexual in nature. Just so you know I ended up on that post after googling and reading about individuals that struggled with racism in interracial relationships. Why was I googling such a thing? Maybe I was in love with a black woman who I met at my first job out of college 3 years ago. Maybe on June 3rd of this year, she ended up having an abortion as a result of her father's clear disdain for being the grandfather of a "white" child. Maybe that lead to us separating. Maybe my "white feelings" brought me to try and gain perspective on the experiences of women like her. Maybe I will just go ahead and delete this post because it is so clear to me now that although the women on this thread may share the same skin color as her, none that have commented come close to exhibiting her strength of character.

Ohh and by the way- as a human being I do have sexual urges- so if you look at the comments on my NSFW account they are nearly always to those that have they themselves posted the content. In fact, when I made the account it was to post content, which I had done a couple of times and deleted when I decided to make this post. Also, if you think telling a woman what features you like about her body when the context of the discussion is clearly sexual, I would hate to know just how boring your sex life is. Thanks

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