I would think you’re racist for sure if you said that, yes, but I wasn’t trying to say I wouldn’t think that’s racist. What I was trying to say is who you sleep with and date doesn’t absolve you of racism. I slept with whites when I still had hope they could be good, but I fetishized them the whole time. If I told you I slept with whites you might have thought I was tolerant, until you learned I only slept with them because I topped them and I got off on the power part of it and that they needed to be taller than me because of this. I clearly did not do it through any sense of love or tolerance, meaning that having a black boyfriend and sleeping with pics does not prove you aren’t implicitly racist.