Who am I, in hijab? I found out. (Bit of a rant I guess)

I am happy you find strength in your faith :) However, you stopped and took their material which created all of this. Yes, it is a slightly aggressive way they're doing it, but you wouldn't have had to meet aggression with aggression if you had simply not taken their reading material. That's the truth. I don't think you did anything wrong, but when agression is met with aggression no one becomes smarter and everyone just becomes angry. Like you said, it took you several days to process this. Days... For a pamphlet essentially. And you are still aggressive (bold writing and so on). Who won? I know that if my wife or daughter spent days on this I would feel like we all lost, not like we won.

You know what I mean? These guys got in your head... That's what they were out to do, to put things in your head that might divide you and your family. They would rather you be a Christian convert who saw her kids on the weekend than you going home and forgetting all about them and their little provocations.

Think about it. You husband (if you have one) is marked by this because you're spending several days on this mentally, you're letting it get to you and you have become more aggressive because of it. You don't need to take the pamphlet to fall for their tricks, you just have to let them dictate your mood. You brought them home, they didn't follow you.

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