35 year old woman here. I have a high paying job and I guess I was the BB for a while. I was really a doormat. I allowed my husband (and everyone) to be really disrespectful to me. I felt like I had more in common with the other BB men I worked with, we'd all work late and then go home and get screamed at by our spouses all night while buying them lavish gifts and vacations and working to try to stay ahead of their credit card debt. My husband refused to work but he sure liked to spend my money and yell at me. I'm ashamed to say I allowed this for nearly 10 years.

Then I watched my male colleagues get divorce raped and end up working hard to pay for their ex to sleep around with the men they were having affairs with. I was able to empathize with them and it made me very angry. I became interested in men's rights and found redpill.

I read a lot of posts on self improvement and started working out. I realized that no one is going to automatically give me respect. I need to respect myself and demand that other people respect me. I also started taking the train where I made myself interact with other people. I went to a few toastmasters meetings and the experience was very helpful...I will be going back to that when I can make the meeting time work.

I demanded respect from my man-child husband and I guess I sort of also employed dread game? - I started getting interest from men due to my new attitude. I didn't cheat but I made it clear I had options and that I was fed up. He upped his game though, got a job and went to the doctor where he found he has very low T (as in a level of 56). I'm going to give it til the end of the year to give the testosterone a chance. I am still trying to encourage him to read redpill and work out more. But I've noticed a huge difference just with the T and regret the wasted years where he probably needed medical treatment.