I have been interested in men on the spectrum before, so I don't believe that is my problem.

As for your opinion on AS women not being into AS men, I don't have a clue, but I will say, in general, women crave emotional intimacy and often fall in love through how a person makes us feel. (Strong emotions = stronger connection for women). It is more difficult for AS men (ofc for AS women, too, but I'm talking about the men here) to express or even understand their own feelings which makes it harder for them to connect to women in the way women crave. Many AS men come off as "too logical" (I'm sure many AS people have been accused of this before) which is a turn-off for many women. Adding a little passion can go a long way. Ofc, many people feel they shouldn't have to change to attract others and that is understandable.