Who else ‘Went the other way’ or did a K-1?

Not many people know this but I met my partner on fetlife too. We connected at an orgy 3 years ago when we were both on vacation and now I just tell people we met on Tinder. Filthy holiday fling gone wrong. We manage to meet up every 2-3 months for a week or so somewhere. He lives in the UK so I’ll be moving over because I’ve lived overseas most my life and he’s in the armed forces and he has no interest in moving to the US.

I don’t really want to get married so the immigration process has been holding us back. I think I’ll go over on a Tier 1 rather than a spouse visa as it will afford me more rights and protection if we break up.

Our biggest hurdle is probably our income disparities. On the surface, our lifestyles are completely different. I earn about 3.5x more than him, I’m better educated, more successful, and I grew up much more fortunate than him. He’s a lot more fixated on the economics of our relationship than I am to the point where sometimes a small insecure voice in my head suggests he’s just using me for my money. He’s insisting we get a pre-nup (another reason why I don’t want to get married) even though initial research tells me they’re not valid in the UK.

/r/90DayFiance Thread