A former friend of mine. She is in her 30s now, but spent her 20s largely not focused on long-term relationships...just one night stands and focusing on career. That alone isn't so bad, because a lot of people do this, but as far as relationships go she now has the emotional maturity of a 12 year old. She started focusing on getting into a LTR in her late 20s, but didn't click with anyone and if she did click with someone she became as obsessed with them as a teenager would be, and got way too serious way too fast, started telling them all their behaviors she wanted them to change...and then she'd wonder why nobody wanted to commit. If she had just let these guys be themselves, maybe they would have committed, but she would criticize them and start in with the "you really hurt me when.." conversations after like 5 dates.

She eventually got into a quasi-relationship with a guy who had more red flags than China, and he made them apparent immediately. However, she dated him anyway but would then complain to me every other day about XYZ horrible traits/habits he had which she knew about literally from day 1. I just lost sympathy. She also wanted me to act like their fights were as serious as a divorce when they had only been dating for 3 weeks.

I really do hope she finds someone she loves and who loves her, but at this point I've stopped caring about the ins and outs.