Who’s the best sexual partner you’ve had and what made them the best?

I've had a whole bunch of partners and the best sexual partner I've ever had... out of all places.... was someone I met on Reddit.

I was not in a good place at the time. I was back home and things weren't going well in life. I posted an r4r for just someone to grab a drink with. Someone responded, I looked at her profile and she had 2 gonewild posts. She looked like charlotte mckinney. No joke. I thought the pic was fake (this was 5-6 years ago).

Even if it was fake, what's the worst that could happen? I get stood up? I ended up meeting her at a bar.

And..... it really was her picture. Turns out she was just in NY for work for 2 months and didn't know anyone here. I find out later that night she was here working as a sugar baby, and she only needed to see him once or twice a week.

Long story short, we grabbed drinks, hit it off, and she really felt like a friend (and I really needed a friend), and we ended back at her hotel room.

Sex. Great sex. But this wasn't what made her "the best".

It was the 4th or 5th time we met, where we finally started sharing more things. I was really comfortable around her now, and there was pretty much zero strings attached, so why not.

The conversation went to sharing kinks. I told her about ALL THE FUCKED UP FANTASIES i had.. that I literally had never EVER EVER shared with anyone... not even previous girlfriends. So it was incredibly cathartic to say it out loud.

Rape fantasies, breath play, humiliation, face slapping, etc. And... lo and behold, she said she was interested in trying a whole bunch of those things with me.

And we did. And it was incredible.

At the end of the 2 months, she left and said she was going back home. I texted her a couple times after, but she never responded. Her Reddit account deleted when I checked one day... so... yeah.

It's pretty much ruined sex for me... because... I don't think anything will ever compare to that experience.

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