My friend's ex-fiancé.

• He cheated on her with at least 20 different girls over a two year relationship.

• He had child molestation, statutory rape, and child endangerment charges against him but refused to tell her about it. We found out when he told her he had a court case but wouldn't tell her what it was for, so I looked up the public record and found out. He still refused to tell her the circumstances of the charges.

• He had a daughter he willingly never saw, supported, or spent time with. (Unrelated to the above charges.)

• When he "proposed" to my friend, he gave her a "promise ring," which turned out to be his ex-wife's ring. He refused to tell her where he got it.

• His ex-wife wasn't really his ex-wife, but his current wife, as he failed to mention he never got legally divorced.

• He was frequently verbally abusive and occasionally physically abusive.

• Got kicked out of the Army for drug-related offenses.

• Got her pregnant and wouldn't help her pay for the abortion.

• He moved to a nearby state, leaving her in her current city with very little money to pay their bills or rent, to pursue some kind of mechanics degree, but failed out and spent the time there cheating on my friend instead.

They broke up recently, thank goodness, but it took a whole mountain of reasons to finally get her to even consider it.