The whole " slut-shaming " is " wrong " is bullshit.

Please realize I'm not calling rape victims sluts. If you were raped then you were taken advantage of regardless of how you dressed. However how you dress and act WILL leave an impression whether you like it or not. If you screw anyone and everyone then yeah you're a slut. If you dress, behave, and act slutty I'll think you're slutty. Matter of fact the whole " slut-shaming " movement that was made to protect RAPE VICTIMS protects everyone but RAPE VICTIMS in my opinion. If the movement was called RAPE-SHAMING I could get behind it. However it's called " slut-shaming ". This implies that the sex is consensual ( which isn't always the case ). And do you really think if you imply consensual sex you'll really get a lot of public support ? My guess is no. The only people that will support the movement are those that are INFORMED and most of those people are already in the movement. Aside from that the uninformed people take the " slut-shaming " movement to it's literal definition and use it to defend SLUTS and NOT RAPE VICTIMS ( and yes there is a difference between the two ).

Rape - the crime, typically committed by a man, of forcing another person to have sexual intercourse with the offender against their will: ( this is the dictionary definition of it but I also think of male rape victims as victims as well )

Anyone who's had been forced to have sex in my opinion is a rape victim regardless of gender.

Slut - a man or woman who has many casual sexual partners.

However if the sex was consensual , it was outside of a relationship, and with multiple " partners " over a short period of time then that is what I'd define as slutty behavior. Now I believe people should do what they want with a willing " partner " however that doesn't mean their actions won't be up for public scrutiny ( especially if such matters are made public ). That is true of everyone. If I was in a relationship with someone and found out they ( in a consensual act ) cheated on me I can guarantee you the first thing I'd call that person would be a slut. I'd call like it is I wouldn't hold back. And the only exception to this would be sexual assault and rape as that wouldn't be their fault. Having said / typed that I honestly believe that this whole " movement " was poorly planned / structured and that planning / structure is to blame for this " movement " losing focus of it's intended purpose.

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