Your bias is giving you a grave misunderstanding of what the average female can physically do(see not hard to mock each other). This is about averages of course it blankets them. Your mother is an exception to the rule this isn’t some women hate comment, women beat men through endurance all the time. The average American male is 190lbs, female being in the 140-150 range. That gives a man leverage, even just dragging through a dangerous situation would generally be easier for them. As you say you learned in the military how to move someone in danger seeing the huuge discrepancy first hand in the physical requirements for male and female combat roles we can assume who would have an easier quicker and therefore safer time moving an average male in danger. The same applies for officers. Your anecdotal evidence doesn’t mean most women can do what your mother did. I’m sure you’ll somehow make this seem like a hateful comment but there’s no malice here. I’d choose a woman to run 10 miles over a man everyday and I’d choose a man to pick up 200lbs everyday. Strength comes in different forms.