WIBTA For Cutting Off My Mother Because She Wants Me To Divorce My Wife, Even Though She's Pregnant And It's Not Mine?

NTA

There's no excuse for your mother to be so verbally abusive. I don't know if you should cut her off forever, but it's ultimately up to you.and anyone who judges you for what you decide to do can fuck off. You know your situation better than anyone else. If you need to cut your mother off to protect yourself/your wife/your unborn child, then do that.

But let me give you a little advice. GET A LAWYER AND LEGALLY ADOPT THE CHILD. Have the child's biological father sign away his parental rights. This is really important. Otherwise he could swoop in at any time in the next 18 years and try to take your child from you. And no matter how much he doesn't want a child now, things change and people change. And almost 20 years is more than enough time for him to change his mind. There have been plenty of cases of men like him wanting nothing to do with their child at first and then changing their mind after a year or two.

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