WIBTA for insisting my girlfriend do all the cleaning?

You bought this house 5 years ago and her decorating skills turned it into a home. That’s great, it was also several years ago. Now let’s get current. You pretty much pay for everything because you have more to lose than she does since everything is in your name. Is that fair to say?

If Mollie didn’t live with you, she would have to live somewhere and she would have to pay for it. Figure out what she’d have to pay for a studio, one bedroom and two bedroom with a roommate. Base what her rent should be using these amounts and figure out her budget. If her budget can only afford 35 or 40% of the total cost then she can contribute to the cooking and cleaning and grocery shopping.

Eventually this is going to get bigger and bigger in your head and cause problems in your relationship. Get it resolved before it does.

No judgement.

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