WIBTA if I reported a gym worker for calling me beautiful?

NTA

He should be cool to members but not that cool.

At the same time he might also be misinterpreting signals. When people feel someone starring at them they will normally turn to see who it is right? Well if your doing this during those uncomfortable moments the employee may think your giving him the okay. As in its okay to come on as strong as he is. When you don't want non of it.

Perhaps try giving him a clear signal that you are bothered by his comments and glares. Body language says a lot does it not?

The gym is also a meeting ground for many and for obvious reasons. When we don't want to be bothered we put on our headphones and get tunnel vision during our routine. Everyone around us disappears. But other times I'll have my headphones off because I want to be a little more social.

You no doubt already know all this so try to be understanding that the gym is a lifestyle to many. It's a great place to meet men and woman if you so choose and many do.

Ask yourself if this guy was more your type would you mind then? If you are still bothered by him then you have every right to say what you need to make it stop. I doubt he will get fired so don't worry about that. At the same time don't get your membership revoked because that's a thing too.

You can choose what gym to use and they can choose if they want you as a customer/member.

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