NAH

You sound super frustrated, and that’s fair, it’s sounds very stressful for you and I’m sorry. I only want to say that the effect those pregnancy hormones have on a body cannot be understated. It can make you feel like you are going crazy, because you legitimately can’t control your emotions. There were times I would get so angry at my husband, and I KNEW it wasn’t his fault, but I couldn’t calm down. I’m just saying, it’s probably very scary to your wife to feel so out of control emotionally, when she already feels like she has lost control of her body to pregnancy. It just sucks all around. Is there anyway you could try to take it less personally and realize she is frustrated too? Whatever you do, please don’t push her away and shut down communication, you both are about to be parents to twins, so you have to learn to communicate and become a team. Y’all need each other, so if you need to go to counseling or whatever, just do something, don’t let these things wedge you apart. Good luck and congrats on those twins!! It really does get easier!