Wife [25f] seems to feel like she's the only one allowed to have a rough day at work, and it is kinda getting on my [28m] nerves.

I'm sorry but who the hell said anything about DFAC? It wasn't in your post and I don't see how "there's always DFAC" is a valid point honestly fuck the DFAC fuck that shit.

You're in the military definitely suggest you two take advantage of the support for marriage they provide. Contact ACS or some other shit there's lots of marriage type support the military provide and for good reason. Yes your marriage needs help but that's not a problem. A military marriage is a hell of a lot different than a typical marriage. It's hard and it's gonna be hard while either one of you are in the military.

On top of that she is a helicopter mechanic so she is in a avaiation unit. I promise you most of the people in this post have no idea what's that is like. Being in a avaiation unit fucking sucks! It's not great it's horrible lol and yes there is a huge pressure where if she mess up people die. If you mess up ehh you gotta tow a truck. It seems fuck up but it's true. Don't hold it against her but you both need work. Neither wrong of you is wrong and neither wrong of you are right.

The thing is being in the military this shit is fucking hard you can ask people here but you're not gonna get the help or advice you need. Take advantage at what the Military can offer you for marriage counseling. Military relationship are very hard. And honestly this sub is nothing more than "validate me and encourage me to leave my spouse". That's it if you're ready to move on that's fine but sounds like you both still care for each other. Just that being in the military takes a lot of you and it's hard.

Take your time think and try to work it out for the both of you. The military life sucks but it's the best worst time of your life.

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