Wife (35F) of 15 years has been role playing with strangers online

Many people would consider this as emotional cheating: intimate real life sexual information is exchanged without you involved, also in a time where you weren't as available. Her resolution was to look for attention with others, while also accusing you of infidelity. But this seems to have a bit of your approval, as you seem to consider this a kink. It's not exactly the same as putting on a wizard hat and getting ready to fight a dragon.

This behaviour is not a dealbreaker for every couple. But it really depends on what you are okay with and how she views her actions. Maybe look in the /survivinginfidelity sub, to see what other stories are and if they are similar to yours.

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