They don't respect you, that's why they split on you when they don't get their way. You gotta be a narcissist when dealing with BPD women. I can't explain how much gratification I get from making a person with BPD suffer and worry. It's a fantastic feeling, I rejoice in this. Getting what u want from them on a plate as you manipulate them, and u sit at home while they work for you and go to DBT to get 'help' because their the crazy ones and your never wrong. When they try dump you but come back because no one will put up with their shit. They may say they hate this but virtually all Borderlines are deeply attracted and turned on by narcs and sociopaths