You pedestaled women. That's nonsense. You continue to do it. Of course any LTR needs to have it together. Its obvious. A lot of guys who give up on women actually put them on a pedestal too. And complain.

I'm suggesting if a guy can't make the grade he does something else and if he's not bitter it's ok. Even the fucking military has minimum standards and some simply don't qualify. That's the way the cards are dealt and you have to play them.

You are explaining it like the disabled kid who is put on a football field and runs for the TD. It doesn't exist in reality.

And it seems you don't know how women feel. Being the pedestal pusher, note I didn't state think. Its feel.

My lifestyle isn't lavish. If you think that, you have even more work to do. What I'm telling you is your statement is mostly bullshit and my life bears that out. I get my act together, my career and maybe at third place time for a woman. You pedestal.