best advise i heard was don't take advise, make your own decisions... ?

idk i thought women in your country are not allowed to leave their family unless they are married.. so just brainstorming... ie if you get married to a foreigner and have to leave the country..., leave your house..etc.. problem solved right? or leave your parents house anyways...

the idea is someitmes you have to lie....? the last part i wrote is from a very simple premise, you say you are depressed because you are lonely, you created your own solution, if you have friends, then you iwll not be depressed, problem solved, i said if you join an organzation. volunteer, job, study, whatever.. you can find friends easier than chasing people on the street