I wish I could contact my ex

I feel the same as you only for different reasons and genders swapped.

I had a vivid dream about her last night(?) or the night before last and can’t get her out of my head since. I’ve been dying to contact her even though I cut off contact with her over a year ago.

Enough about me though.

OP: it’ll get better with time. You’ll build these memories and better ones with someone who treats you far better than he treated you. This thought is what keeps me going for myself and I hope it does the same for you.

You will meet someone who is far better and makes you laugh more and feel better about yourself. There will always be times where you think on the good times you had with this other person, but keeps those good memories where they are, in the past as memories. No matter what, keep the contact cut between you two. If you happen to ever see him again, say hi or another greeting and then keep it pushing as if they were any other stranger.

You’ll always develop nice memories with people, both good and bad. I don’t need to say it to you because you seem to already know, but I just wanted to reassure you as someone else who’s going through something similar.

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