I'm not talking in circles, I simply said that my first comment to you was right after all, since you added "with someone [I think was] pretty." And my whole point is that there is not a single woman on the planet who is shallow, women aren't even that visual, let alone shallow. Are you currently drunk to say "many are"?

Dumping their otherwise lovely husbands when they gain too much weight

I have pretty much never heard of that about women. That is something that is very typical of men though, which further leads me to believe that you are very confused about this.

I think you're being very naive to think otherwise.

Lol, naivety means you believe the common misconception. Most young boys believe that women are just as shallow as men are, making it the common misconception. It would take the kind of knowledge that only comes with a great deal of personal experience and observations to look past the misconception and see what's really going on. So me discovering that women aren't visual and definitely not shallow is pretty much the opposite of being naive.