Is a woman with ambition important to you or do you not mind a simple life?

I don't really wanna be a CEO or a top person in my field but growing up in a community of single mothers who had to take care of their bum ass husbands before being abandoned, I will not accept the same in my relationship.

I'm not gonna be a grown ass person's mom. I'm not gonna work 9-5, come home and cook/clean/put the kids to bed, and beg for you to do small-ass things you should be doing like your own laundry. I've seen too many grown ass women do that for men who use religion and their position as men who work 9-5 (like every friggin adult) and say it's the woman's job as excuses for a 90-10 relationship.

I don't care about ambition so much as independence. If you make 30K/year but live on your own, even if it's small as hell, cook/clean/do adult things, that's what matters to me.

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