Women can be bad in bed too - and most don’t even know it / Society gives them a pass

I only have one issue with your post: "women are always willing to complain". Maybe you could try and consider if it's possible it looks that way, because it's only (historically) recently that women have been even asked for their opinion on the matter. A good woman in the past would have died, rather than discuss (or even consider) her sexual satisfaction. And many people, men and women, would have killed her, rather than have her talk about that.

Otherwise, no, you're not wrong. Men and women alike can be selfish or clumsy lovers.

But not because women are being "coddled" by society, regarding their sexual skills. Rather, because they're skut shamed for them. Even in the most advanced societies.

You might want to consider how for men, sexual know-how came with sexual freedom, and being raised to be Casanovas. For women, again for the longest time, sexual pleasure or practical know-how was equated with being a slut. Shameful, undesirable, dubious knowledge that would only prompt a prospective or eventual husband to ask himself: "hmmmm, she knows a little too many things, a little too well. I wonder how. Well of course, she's a slut! Who knows how many men she's slept with".

So yeah. Younger women are still struggling to get rid of this mentality, and many, many of them were (and still are) raised in it. Get rid of the slut shaming, get rid of the "what's your number?" questions, and you'll likely see more enthusiastic, skilled women.

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