3. Do women really prefer douches over nice men? Let’s say there were two twins, ...

Do women really prefer douches over nice men? Let’s say there were two twins, one who is a douche and the other who is nice. Which one would you date?

Hey, I'm pretty sure you got banned here, so I can't see or reply to your response to me. Pretty sure it was this, though, right?

I mean one easy example to look for is celebrities. This famous women always go for the douchy sports stars or rappers who just end up cheating on them. That’s what I’m saying. What’s the appeal?

The appeal is that these guys are talented, successful, and charismatic. They certainly don't walk up to women and say "Hey, I'm gonna repeatedly cheat on you. Wanna date?". They either are upfront about wanting casual sex and the women they approach are down or they act in a charming (one might even say "nice") manner to attract women who want a committed relationship and then turn around and betray their trust.

Do you think women who are with cheaters or abusers want to be? No, of course not, they're love bombed into a seemingly wonderful relationship and then, when they're already dependent and in love, the facade starts to crack. No one says "Wow, this guy really seems like he'll treat me like shit, sign me up!".

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