Women of Reddit, are any of you against feminism and why?

I am against the feminist movement, yes. I was a part of it for a while, I started in my early teens and it just naturally kind of followed me into adulthood, but eventually I began to feel like I was only doing it because I felt like people would call me a feminist anyway due to some of my beliefs (being anti-porn and prostitution namely), so like... I figured I had to just go with it?

But I got to the point that I just found myself not giving a damn about 90% of feminist issues; I don't care about nude ladies in video games, I don't believe in gender identity, I don't think having 300 previous sexual partners is a good thing, I don't think "misandry" is funny -- neither the word nor the concept, I don't think masculinity or femininity are bad things, I can't stand the whole concept of privilege dynamics most of the time... I mean I just generally really struggle to find anything I can relate to in the movement at all. And the few issues I do care about, ironically, most mainstream feminists don't and will usually tell me I'm bad for caring about them. Not to mention all of the false information surrounding things like the supposed wage gap which people will just eat up no matter how many times you debunk it.... I'll be damned if I willingly associate myself with that again.

Many will try and define feminism in the most non-threatening ways possible, such as "it's just believing that women are people," but at the end of the day a movement is what its members do and the feminist movement tells a much different story that I'm simply not interested in.

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