i'm a career woman, i don't care about having kids and enjoy my life making 60k a year, driving a suzuki swift and vacations to polynesia twice a year. some people just can't accept that, especially my own family. i found out i wasn't invited to my nephews 10th birthday party, yet everyone else was. i called my brother and he told me "we don't want you around, you stink the place up with smoke, you drink too much and never stop talking about how you don't want kids or need a husband and we're sick of it" - if you can't read between the lines here my presence intimidates him because I have a better lifestyle than him and as a man, he can't stand it.