Do I smell an agenda?

In the event that this isn't an agenda question:

Women are given preferential treatment and have more programs to assist them than men all around.

Women are also far more likely to be responsible for children.

Starting at age 5, kids have similar performance. After that, year on year, in all subjects, girls start leaving boys behind.

Because there's a huge conspiracy to hold down six year old boys? What are you getting at here?

In the Western world at University level 60 to 66% of undergraduates are female.

Again, what are you getting at here? Being in college fucking sucks, and it's expensive. It makes more sense to work for a few years so you can actually afford college later. Women are less likely than men to work well-paying blue collar jobs, which makes them more likely to stay in college pursuing something clean and professional.

At the other end of the scale those students who get no qualifications at all, who play truent, who get expelled, who have learning difficulties…

Does this sentence have a predicate?

Given these, is the future of men in society grim?

No.

Will be active contributing members of science, technology, economy who have stable careers...

It's a given that the active contributing members of these fields will have stable careers, yes.

or will there be a complete ancient role reversal (women controlling most everything and men left jobless and stay at home dads?)

....You make it sound like this whole situation is a direct threat to you. Why does it have to be a war of the sexes?

Another question, are you happy or concerned about what is going on to men in society?

And what exactly is that? Working instead of going to college immediately after high school? What someone else chooses to do with his or her life has no bearing on me at all.

Do you feel men deserve this...

Deserve what?