Women: what is male the equivalent of the "feminine girl walking down the street in a little black dress" for you?

I work in an office, with lots of men in suits. Honestly, I don’t find it attractive at all. It actually shifts my brain into serious “let’s get to work” mode. 99% of the men I encounter in a professional setting are wearing a suit. I rarely encounter a suit outside of that. I’ve also worked in really high-pressure, highly formal dress environments. I didn’t like it. Suit makes me think “yuck.”

But a man giving everything he has in an outdoor mountain sport? Trying really hard to get something brutal done? Breaking those mental limitations and grunting like a beast? Sweaty and filthy and just ....hnnngggg

Definitely hot.

Unless it’s like... he’s working really hard on something easy. Then its just like “cool bro, nice job.” Not sexy.

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