Women, what do you find most confusing about men?

I’m angry at all of the comments from men saying “bc we don’t care/ it’s a chore/ I don’t like how lotion feels/ it’s expensive” etc etc. must be fucking nice.

So stop fucking caring? I'm not one of those men, I try to keep myself clean and groomed, I have different moisturizers. I'm still learning but I'm trying. But a lot of that is because I feel shit about myself. I feel like I'm unwanted, I'm gross, I'm unattractive. But I'm not pissed at guys that don't care about that stuff, because that's their fucking business. You could say "females get extra pressure from society" but what does that have to do with comparing yourself to others? Your motivation and guilt is intrinsic. I know plenty of females that keep clean but don't have beauty regiments and I think they are still great people. So fuck off with "why do I have to try so hard, I'm pissed at people that opt-out from that pressure" because if you really don't like it then adjust your expectations

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