Aka, it's fine, till it's not, and then we gotta throwdown.
No. Then we have a discussion. Because two intelligent people who care for each other can reach a compromise... and that doesn't mean "straight down the middle"... that means something each side understands is necessary minimum for the sanity and comfort of the other.
Right, and you demand to be seen as a worth equal.
As in I don't get into relationships with condescending men who see me as their inferior? No. I don't.
It means, you're highly dominant, but quickly get upset when being dominated.
Um... No? What would that scenario even look like?
It probably violates you, your feelings.
How? I'm not a very sensitive person.
/u/camille11325 could probably help you understand this even more.
Yea, I read that, I don't fit into either category. I'm definitely confrontational when necessary, and not the least bit sensitive, but I'm extremely accommodating and very feminine (in everything except my interests). I am not a doormat nor passive nor weak... and everyone is somewhat insecure. I am confident, driven, assertive, and somewhat ambitious. Not sure what "masculinised" means, but all of my interests are male-dominated, and I am generally considered argumentative, but definitely not self serving (very generous, nurturing and helpful, and I volunteer all the time), and I'm only insubordinate to people that I don't respect.
I'd say you have at best 2% of available men to choose from, and that's if your city is awesome, probably less than 1% in reality.
...so I guess that confirms that there are "no good men left"?
15-20%, lol, how cute.
Why is that cute? Are you talking like all men? Or just men within their 30s?
The only men that can compete with you must be your superior. It doesn't mean you and your partner wouldn't challenge each other, as yes you have different strengths, but you can only be better in feminine domains for the most part, or be forced to look down on him otherwise.
...and this load of bullshit is based on what, exactly?
You exhibit the female version of nice guys, being a cool girl.
Maybe. Except for the part where I've never been friendzoned.
Pop your bubble, get back to RP.
Back to? That's a hard no.
You have two choices, if you want an egalitarian relationship, you must find a man below you to make your bitch,
So you read everything where I said "I want give and take and partnership and challenge" and you see "you need to find someone you can make your bitch"? Da fuck?
if you want a power couple or traditional relationship, you need a man that is your superior in a way you implicitly recognize and accept.
Superior in a way, isn't superior in every way like you were claiming.
But straight up, your inability to submit, as your first man demanded of you to quit your woman-on-the-prowl behavior, is easily your biggest turn off.
Woman on the prowl? Dude, there's an ocean of subtleties between "woman on the prowl" and being asked to completely stop drinking alcohol and wear a hijab. From a guy who had spent most of the previous 3 years partying and drinking with me abroad. You don't know me... stop assuming.