If you’re referring to getting off, occasionally. I usually am fantasizing about very specific scenarios. Sometimes they involve specific people and sometimes it’s just the thought of the act itself. If I am thinking of my partner, I’m thinking about our kinkiest times from the past. I’ll keep it real…I also have thought about other people. All it is is make believe.

If you’re referring to when I’m literally solo on a trip or running errands or whatever, not too much. I check in and ask what he’s up to, but I don’t bug him. I’m independent and my own person, so I just hope he’s having a good time and let him know if he needs me call me. I’m not clingy at all and appreciate a man who can do his own thing. A good mix of time together and time apart is key to a good relationship. I don’t need someone breathing down my neck.