Not a comment. I've been raped by a customer. I had a cook grab my butt with cooking tonges. I had a bartender and manager slap my butt. I reported the cook who grabbed my butt with tonges. The manager I reported to blamed me and told me it was because I talk to the cooks. The bartender I confronted personally because he had a daughter at home. I didn't want him to lose his job supporting his child. He broke down and cried over it. I reported I was raped 11 years later. I opened up to an ex about being raped and he called me stupid and dumb for being raped. Which is why it took me so long to say anything on top of the fact my parents always made me feel uncomfortable about sex in general.

I used to be a cocktail server at a hotel and I had a business man give me his room number for a blow job. I told him I was engaged. He told me he didn't have to know. He wanted to pay me and I told him no. He must've been as old as my dad if not older.

I've had a regular bring his wife and tried to pressure 19 year old me into sex. Didn't happen.

All these experiences is why I've had 13 jobs in the food/retail industry. Not enough protections and when the work place environment goes south I run.