women who have had their nudes leaked what was your experience?

I don't know if this counts. When I was 15, we went on a class trip for a couple of days. One day, we were outside for so long, I had a bad sunstroke and didn't feel so good, so I went to bed early.

I was pretty much passed out, but woke up to a classmate, who was then 17 or 18, kissing, groping and undressing me. He took pictures of me topless. I told him to stop. I think I was able to cover my face, but anyone from my school would've easily recognized me. I don't remember much of the rest.

The next day, I immediately told him to delete the photos right away. I don't think he did. I asked him again and again, and he told me he deleted them. He's a liar and an AH though, I don't believe him.

That was 6 years ago. He still texted me from time to time, asking to hook up, until I shut him down half a year ago. I still wonder if he has those pictures and if he showed them to anyone. Kind of feels like Schroedingers Nudes or something.

In the end, I wouldn't know, I live in a different country now. Also had a lot of issues with the rest of my class as they were all a bunch of abusers and rapists, so I went no contact with all but the one good guy.

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