Feelings have developed on my side the first three months we started it! I told him how I felt, he said he didn't feel the same way and I decided to end it. Ultimately it made me really sad because we were friends for the longest time before and after I ended it, we barely talked anymore. So I decided to rekindle the friendship a few months later, and one thing led to another and we have been going at it since. There are some lines that cannot be uncrossed. We've tried ending things with each other a few times (new partners and all, trying to stay faithful) but we keep getting drawn together like magnets and it is near impossible to stay away. The sexual chemistry is unbelievable.

I think how no deeper feelings developed after that is because we realize we are incompatible outside of the bedroom, the other doesn't possess qualities that the other wants in a partner, etc. And I think that is very important. It also helps to have two or more FWBs at the same time so that you don't get caught up in one. You can of course, still have a favorite! ;) As he is mine.