Yea he is rather active. Not just reading posts but also posting commentaries.. its like a semi professional platform for him. He has told me he wont post anything about us even if he adds me.. and likely wont do that fb official thing.

Is the relationship still gna function without the social media? Yes. But at the same time, he's not going to lose anything by just adding me on fb, especially since i know he does not like to talk about his personal life and i will respect that.

You could say i want to see his social media cos i dont trust him enough.. how do i trust him when not adding ur fiance on social media is so abnormal by the standards of our current social norms?